Hi Dörte,
Between Dörte Gensow and You
June 7 at 9:05pm
wier gets Ihr?
(was that right?).
I'm trying to find out a bit about things that have been going on etc.
Since I have been followed by some mafia etc., it seems from Norway etc.
Is it ok if I ask some maybe a bit personal questions about eg. you and Iwo in Sunderland?
I was just wondering what type of relationship you had, since Brusk told me that you only had a 'sexual relationship', but you had a normal relationship, didn't you?
I don't mean to be inpolite asking this, I only try to get a puzzle together about things I'm wondering about, like why did Nelufer and the other girl move out, Federica seems to think it's to do with her, while you said that it was some problems with you people from Germany in the flat.
Sorry if I'm asking many questions, I'm trying to understand what went on, so it's not because I mean to be inpolite or anything!
Hope this is alright!
Erik
Today at 6:40pm
Hey Erik,
Wie geht es Dir. is the right one :) but you was close...
Brusk was right about my relationship with iwo, but why are you asking this? this story is over and lies so long in the past....
this nilüfer thing was strange... she was kind of crazy you know what I mean she got medication for her mental health, she had problems with federica at first because federica used nilüfers milk a lot more than she asked for... so nilüfer was crazy about that and tried to invoke anyone in her battle against the "bad" federica who tried to do bad things to nilüfer.... nilüfer imagined that federica tries to get the other people on her side against nilüfer...
this is kind of Fear of persecution its a mental desease... the poeple are thinking the the whole world is against them
in the end nilüfer eavesdrops a conversation between me and federica ... we spoke about nilüfer and why she had problems with federica and tried to find out what was going wrong...
after that nilüfer thought that federica has influenced me with her bad attitude :/ strange and crazy... and so nilüfer decided that the whole flat is against her and that she cannot live in this flat anymore...
this is the whole story...
Today at 7:26pm
Hi Dörte,
this was so fun that I think I have to post it on my blog.
Hope that's alright.
The reason I was wondering about the relationship between you and Iwo, was because I remember from the first one or two days in Sunderland.
Then Iwo explained what he studied etc, since I think we were the first two who moved in there.
And then we were partying, the day you moved in, I think.
And then, late in the night, then you and Iwo were alone I think.
And then I asked Iwo the day after, if you were his girlfriend then.
And he didn't answer.
I said I thought we were friends, me and Iwo, and that this was why I was asking.
And you were always sitting in the lounge, with your laptop.
And Iwo, was also sitting there all the time.
And you made food for both of you, and your room, was used as your bedroom, and Iwos room was used as his study-room/office.
And when I went to the lounge/kitchen, to make food, then Iwo always asked you, if you were 'frisky', which you often were, I seem to remember.
Weren't you allowed to be in your room then, since you were sitting in the lounge all the time?
I thought you were like a married couple almost, so I got a bit surprised, when Brusk said that you only had a sexual relationship.
And since we lived in the same flat for a lot of months, I got a bit curious about this, since we were talking a bit and we were like friends, at least I thought, the ones who were living in the flat, after Nelufer and the other German girl, the one with the red hair I think she had, moved.
So, when brusk said this, then I thought that maybe something had been going on in the flat, that I didn't understand about.
Because I remember I was wondering, when you and Iwo became a pair, because it happend so fast, late on night I think it was, and then you were like a married couple, redecorating your rooms, so that your room was the bedroom, and then you always sat in the lounge in the days, and you made a lot of food, which I remember you were very good at.
And I think it was maybe a bit strange, that Iwo would ask you all the time, in the lounge, when I was there to make food, if you were 'frisky'.
You had blond curly hair, when you lived there, didn't you?
Like not real curls, but made at the hairdresser, or something?
Iwo, I remember had dark hair, wasn't that tall as you, I think.
Was it like this, that he didn't turn you on then, but it was like an arrangement, so that you got 'frisky', like you always said, you and Iwo, and then your sex-life was working again, like I remember Iwo said, when I fixed your computer, that then he got his sex-life back again.
So when Brusk said this, that you only had a sexual relationship, then I didn't really understand, what went on in the flat I had been living in for months, because, like I explained, I though you were a couple, like husband and wife, so this I didn't really understand.
And when I was living there, and talking with you every day, and we acted like we were friends, then I thought I maybe should try to get to know what really went on there, since I was living there myself, I thought I should try to understand what went on.
If there eg. was anything 'forced' with this relationship?
I don't know, but I just thought it was a bit strange.
Also that Rosario, the blond Spanish girl, moved in, a few days after you and Iwo became a couple, and I tried to speak to Iwo about this, just to try to understand what went on.
I just thought that I should maybe try to understand what went on in the flat, since I was living there.
So that's why I'm asking all these strange questions.
Sorry if I'm inpolite about this, remember I'm from Norway, and we aren't that good with manners etc, and don't use plates and eat from the table like I told you.
Only jokeing.
But it was fun with the story about Nelufer and Federica.
So thanks very much for the answer!
Hope you don't get angry since I'm asking so strange questions!
Erik
Today at 8:18pm
things between iwo and me were going on very fast you were right but we had a normal relationship like a couple you said too... maybe i missunderstood that fact before... thougt that you mean "just friends" relationship and than the other thing... but you havent think about it an longer :) its over... maybe i think you overtax yourself with this thinking over these things :))just put it away... makes things easier :))
Today at 8:23pm
Oh can you delete my lastname or my whole name in this blog-thing? its about google search you know.. if personal recruiter google my name they shouldnt find my name in a discussion about sexual relationships... :) please...
Today at 9:06pm
Hi Dörte,
I don't think the things that happened in Sunderland, and what you are saying now adds up.
So I think I have to think a bit more about this, before I decide what to do.
Hope this is alright!
Erik
Today at 9:15pm
what do you want to do? maybe i havent understand you in the right way... i am a little bit confused... iwo and me were a couple i think he dont give you an answer when you asked him because for him this was only a sexual thing... you know... he never loved me... and he told me this all the time... but i thaught that i could change his mind... when we were back in germany he
Today at 9:18pm
brake the relationship because he faund another gilr he liked more than me... could younow understand why i do not like to speak about this relationship between me and him? for the time was very hard... and i dont want to remenber... i like to speak with you after this time because i think we are friends... but in some ways i think i dont understand you....
Innlegg
